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time spent?
Heatherpfaff: i wanted him to spend time with me, i addressed this issue. he called me a child because i got upset. than he took of for 2 days.

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December 12, 2007 21:55
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HETEROSEXUAL’S: Thieves of Heterosexuals’s
Marcella: There's room in this world for gay, straight, and bisexual people.

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December 12, 2007 22:36
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Sister Vs. Sister
Marcella: You were wrong not to say something sooner.

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December 12, 2007 21:36
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Women's Rules - equality?
Marcella: Face the facts -- The problem might be you and not all women in the world.

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December 12, 2007 22:19
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Getting mad about not going out after the fact
MudBugs: I am sick of my girlfriend waiting to try to plan the night until it is too late and then getting mad at me for not doing anything.

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December 12, 2007 21:45
The Wall

Mom vs. Me
Fuckthisshit THEscrewup: Past issues sworn to be forgotten. Now they are suddenly being remembered.

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February 04, 2018 16:05
    Wifey210: I want my husband to take a job that pays less money to be on the same shift as me while both of us going to school.

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February 05, 2018 18:56
Agapemou`s Argument
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I understand that volunteering at the show is good for business networking. I havent an issue with that. But my feelings were extremely hurt when he suggested that it might be best if I didn't attend as it would make his ex uncomfortable and he wouldn't want to do that to her. Early on we were invited to dinner at his boss's club where ex also is a member. Ex pulled my Significant Other aside, as he was walking with our hosts and me, and told him he is not to bring me anywhere that she might be. I feel that by allowing her to dictate where he might bring me and deciding not to bring me to the art show indicates that he is more concerned with her feelings than mine. He had previously told me that they were more friends than anything else. I have since found out otherwise. He and his son have moved in with my children and I. We are talking about getting married in the Spring.

Marcella`s Argument

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Do you trust your partner? Because it doesn't sound like you do.

I understanding disliking his ex (she sounds like a piece of work -- who is she to dictate where you can and can not come and WHY on earth did your partner agree to this and TELL YOU?!).

Putting aside that though, if your partner is telling you the truth and he just wants to network, then you shouldn't have a problem letting him go to the event by himself.

If you don't think he's being honest with you, DO NOT insist on going! You do not want to be a with a man that lies to you and still has a thing for his ex. If you suspect that this is the case, then you need to move on for your own sanity.

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Rating 4.00 (1 total):
67% of People thought Marcella was Wrong (6 total votes)
Category Relationship
Case was closed on December 12, 2007 22:06
Tags: ex's, art show, feelings
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akmorant1   3705 days 21 hours 11 min. ago
I believe that you do trust him, but because of his continued insistance of not allowing you to be where his ex and he are at the same time does show that he is considering her feelings more than yours. do not marry him and let him go back to the ex
burkett   3761 days 7 hours 20 min. ago
First I need to say that if you are having this argument then the two of you should not be living together and certainely not involving children in your drama. This has little to do with the ex and more to do with the two of you. I believe that you have this issue with other things that do not concern his ex at all. Two people who admire and respect each other do not do things that are damaging to the relationship. He should not be allowing the ex to pull him aside and you should not be volunteering somewhere that you know she will be. Look into your relationship and I think you find that there are other areas that the two of you are not compatable. I'll the bet the biggest is in how you deal with the others children. I say you both get your own place and remain friends but don't date.
Dagman   3769 days 22 hours 6 min. ago
Wow. I am definitely with you on this one Agapemou. Have your significant other post the other side though. Maybe there is more to the story that you aren't telling.

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