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Goodssteph`s Argument
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My boyfriend who is a very nice looking guy goes to one of the local bars here in town and frequently tells me of all the women who propostion him while he is there. This doesn't bother me in the least bit. I am very secure with myself and our relationship and I am not a jealous person. When he tells me these little stories I listen(because ignoring him would be rude) but rarely comment. Last weekend a very handsome guy approached me for a little conversation. He asked if I was seeing someone and I said yes and he said "Thats too bad because I would love to take you out." My boyfriend saw me having this conversation and asked me what was said I explained and he said that I was being very disrespectful to him because I should have just walked away while the guy was talking because by even listening to what he said I was flirting. My point was that I stated I was in a relationship. I did not take him up on his offer of a date and besides I have listened to his little anecdotes of his women pursuers for over 2 years and never gotten upset. so why is what I did a big deal? He says that my argument is ridiculous and that it is not the same. |
Staggalaggadingdong`s Argument
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Secondhand info is one thing,you taking to some guy in front of your boyfriend is another.Thats a no-no.Guys want to have sex with you.Thats all.Your boyfriend knows this.He is not insecure. |
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Dagman
1689 days 7 min. ago
Goodssteph, get your boyfriend to post his argument. I would love to see how he justifies this one. Seems like a typical one-way street justification to me, but maybe there is another side to this story.
Your boyfriend clearly is the 'insecure' and jealous party here..The need to persistantly tell you about women coming onto him.. is his way of trying to get a jealous response from you and feel 'wanted' and admired.
Second hand information is much worse since you were not there to witness these ladies and their body language the duration etc.. at least he was.. so yes he is right it is much different but not in HIS favour.
The problem here is that you are not a jealous person and I think your partner would like to see a small response now and again.