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"Why I feel you should be a blessing to others?"

Jrnyfn Mygods4u: I feel you should be a blessing to others because there is always someone much worse off than you.

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December 15, 2007 08:52
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Getting mad about not going out after the fact
Marcella: Your girlfriend sounds like an immature twit who can't make decisions on her own... You need to grow a pair and tell her that she needs to grow up.

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December 12, 2007 21:45
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Is my girlfriend is cheating on me?
Argue this Case MudBugs: Yes. She goes out till 4:30 then gets a text message from her ex boyfriend the next day. Case closed.

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May 23, 2017 13:41
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Offer to Pay?
MudBugs: 1)You should have offered to pay or split the check, 2) He was right to be offended, 3) you were wrong for getting mad at him for telling the truth

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December 11, 2007 21:29
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Can you scare a chicken/turkey to death?
MudBugs: I will bet the farm on the fact that you can NOT kill a turkey by scaring it to death

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December 02, 2007 22:05
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friends in marriage
    Hmnic: I am not so sure about my husband being friends with a woman he used to date. She is needy and has no friends.

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June 01, 2017 00:47
Bye bye PS4
    Theempress55445: Whatever my husband does to me or the kids, I'm doing it right back to him.

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June 02, 2017 11:25
Thanksgiving Craziness
Murphy Dingleberry: My family ate the dinner that I prepared without me!

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June 09, 2017 09:38
Jrnyfn`s Argument

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My mother is an elderly woman who neds care and my sister and my other two brother One of my brothers lives far away in another state about two hours away.and has a job My sister lives right next door to my mother and she also has a job, My other brother doesn't drive and also lives an hour away plus has a job. As for me, I don't work, I am married and have a child and have to clean night and day to keep my home clean brecause my family seem to mess it up right after I clean it up. I also attend an online school to become a tearcher's aide. Unfortunately my mother beeds help going to the doctors and to go to go places that she would like to go, My argument is that my sister and brothers do nothing for her and all that shen needs to have done is put on me

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you should be happy your mother is around still. From your description it doesn't sound like she has that many needs. Only taking her to the doctor and other places that she wants to go to go. I know plenty of people who do much more for their parents than you seem to be doing.

Plus it seems like all your siblings are either living far away or busy working. Maybe they should help pay for any costs you are incurring but in terms of the actual time spent, it seems like you are the most capable individual.

When your mother isn't around anymore than you will wish you could have run these small errands with her.

Also what are you doing with all your time? Cleaning the house. If this is some kind of obsessive compulsive thing then maybe you should be more concerned with getting rid of that problem. A house that a family actually lives in will get dirty. Period. No point trying to constantly keep it clean. Get over it.
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100% of People thought Jrnyfn was Wrong (1 total votes)
Category Miscellaneous
Case was closed on December 02, 2007 21:49
Tags: Family, problems, argument
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Jrnyfn   3465 days 10 hours 52 min. ago
Ok I here what you are saying Here is the 411. My mother didn't just give birth to me. There are three of us . I am not an only child here. My mother may have given birth to me , but she has given birth to three others as well. My sister works at a school and the days that she has off she could help my mother out if I am not available . If I get ill, and my mother needs to go food shopping, then she will not get to the store until I am better. So how selfish can that be? I have to be dying and they would still expect me to help her. I know that I have to help my mother but you have to realize at what expense, my health. If somethinng happens to me, then my son is without a mother. Another thing for your 411, if I leave my child in dirthy diapers, they would come and take my son away from me for abuse. and neglect.
Well here is the story about the mess. My husband leaves cups , bills , whatever all on the floor of our bedroom. Toothpaste is in the sink and food left out . When I get home, I clean it so that my home is not bug ridden. If you think that I should leave food all over and attend to my aging mother , who also has three other children, you have to be crazy. Then after I clean my house within 24 hours it back the same way
I am getting calls from her because she needs to get her hair done, doctor appointments. I drive her every Friday and she call me to help out with the littlest things . I also have a sister, and two nieces that live next door to her. My poor mother has to put out her own garbage , because nobody will do it . If I am not there , my mother will do it . So I feel as though I am an only here . My mother bought the house near my sister so that she could help out . My siblings might work, but not for my mother.,
massnomore   3502 days 21 hours 4 min. ago
i agree with corgipup, be glad your mom is still alive.

and again, tell us, how 3 people mess up a house to be cleaned day & night? makes no sense here.
corgipup   3504 days 6 hours 44 min. ago
Listen, sister--

Be glad your mother is alive!!

The hell with your siblings. One day you will be glad that you helped your mother. And if you're lucky, your child will take care of you when you are your mother's age..

Just think--when your mother goes to heaven, you will have no regrets about her. Your siblings--if they are human--will because they have neglected her.

Another thing: how can one child and a husband mess up a house so it has to be cleaned up "day and night"?

What is your priority: your aging mother, who gave you birth and changed your dirty diapers, or a clean house!!!!????

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