Roughjewel: I supported this guy for yrs. Still give rides & put food in home plus whatever else if we need it. Yet he trys to always make me out to be the bad 1
I had to make a trip to the town next to where my ex-boyfriend lives (he lives about 50 minutes from me) but since we haven't really been talking that much I wasn't really sure if I should see him or not. So when he asked me if I wanted to come over after I finished the errand I had to do I said that I didn't know. So my ex-boyfriend picks me up at the train station and takes me to run the errand. then afterwards instead of saying, "so do you want to come over and hang out" he asked me"what are you going to do." For me this was a clear indication that he no longer wanted to hang out with me but he says that he was merely reaffirming his previous question of whether I wanted to hang out with him. Seems like if he really wanted me to hang out he would have just clearly asked me. Then when I responded "I guess just take me to the train," he did just that and didn't even mention anything about hanging out. Talk about insensitivity.
Listen you said it your self ... ex ... all he was doing was trying to be nice hoping that you would say that you had other things to do. You were non committal when he first asked you so why should he push the point. He helped you with the errand as a polite gesture and since you had not mentioned hanging out after, why should he! All you wanted him to do was beg for the pleasure of your company ... get over yourself.