Alenabambina: I started dating this guy and now his ex wants him back. She keeps texting us, has sent some creepy love letters and has started telling rumors.
MudBugs: You must consider the reason for the loan and the context of the conversation. Here It is clear that I meant $200 to gamble and $100 if we loose.
After I hadn't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks the first thing he says to me is "You look like crap." You would think at least an "I missed you and Love you" would have come before the criticism.
Even if I didn't look my best, after four years he could have at least not said anything.
You have every right to be upset or get offended....shit I would! I agree with you, he should of at least said some type of endearing words before saying something like that. And if he does say something like that, let it be in a joking manner..."if you have nothing nice to say don't say it at all". Like really? That's the first thing that came to mind when he saw you? How about "Omg, I haven't seen her in so long, can't wait just to hug and kiss her...smell her hair"....ETC- something along those lines lol.
So NO I feel it's NEVER appropriate to say those specific words to your significant other...it's plain MEAN!