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Can you scare a chicken/turkey to death?
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Hollywood: Chickens/turkeys have small hearts and if you scare them you can stop their hearts and kill them.
Case Closed on December 02, 2007 22:05 |
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BestTestorone Filled Commercial
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MudBugs: Under Armour's Klit Klat commercial has more intensity and is more action packed. Gets me pumped every time.
Case Closed on December 10, 2007 18:35 |
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time spent?
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Marcella: Your biggest mistake? Screaming at a man doesn't make him want to hang out with you.
Case Closed on December 12, 2007 21:55 |
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Offer to Pay?
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LawGirl: Should a woman offer to pay for dinner? If she doesnt would you be offended? And, if you happen to be offended, would you tell her?!!
Case Closed on December 11, 2007 21:29 |
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Being Used
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Jrnyfn: Taking Mother everywhere when I have three sibilings
Case Closed on December 02, 2007 21:49 |
GETTING MAD ABOUT NOT GOING OUT AFTER THE FACT
MudBugs`s Argument
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Let me preface this by saying that it is not likely we never go out or anything. We go to dinner once at least once every few weeks and probably a bar/club type scene about as frequently. We also go to the movies alot and other date-night type things. Typical situation is I ask my girlfriend, "do you want to do anything tomorrow night?" And then I get a response along the lines of "No, I we can just stay home and watch a movie or something." Then the actual day comes, and I ask her again in the morning and she again repeats the same thing. To be honest, I enjoy staying in and just relaxing so for me I am not going to press the issue. Then it gets to be about midnight or sometime when it is clearly not even a possibility to go out and she starts yelling at me telling me when never do anything and I don't love her. Now come on. |
Marcella`s Argument
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This is a likely story. You are dating the kind of girl that has no ability to make decisions for themselves and expects you make all the plans in your relationship. You are expected to anticipate all of her needs and make all the decisions about where to go and what to do. She feels like if she wavers or doesn't make decisions, she won't be held responsible if, god forbid, she makes a BAD choice. You would be much better off either dumping her RIGHT NOW, or you need to explain that she is in control of her own happiness. While you can do many things as a couple, you should not be held solely responsible for her entertainment. However, if you have been the primary decision maker up to this point (and it sounds like you have been), maybe you just like being in charge. If that's the case, you are just as much at fault as she. If you continue to enable her immature behavior, you will end up being in a relationship with a child. |
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83% of People thought Marcella was Wrong (6 total votes) Category Relationship Case was closed on December 12, 2007 21:45 Tags: URL: Copy to Clipboard  Save to Favorites
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Be grateful that your girlfriend is not a golddigger looking to out and blow away your money. Save all that money that you could have spent for a future wedding