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Sister Vs. Sister
Twinangelsmom: I agrred to take care of my niece and my sister agreed to pay me. It's been 5 months and I haven't seen a cent was I wrong to say something about it?

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December 12, 2007 21:36
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Choosing a Stall
Larlarlarz MudBugs: When possible one should always avoid sitting in a stall next to an already occupied stall.

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November 28, 2016 19:20
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Being Used

MudBugs Jrnyfn: Taking Mother everywhere when I have three sibilings

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December 02, 2007 21:49
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Ex and the Art Show
Marcella: Trust is the most important part of a relationship. If you can't trust him alone with his ex, you shouldn't think about marrying this guy!!!

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December 12, 2007 22:06
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The New York Times has no business backing any Candidate
Argue this Case MudBugs: A supposedly Unbiased newspaper should not state a preference for any candidate.

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MudBugs`s Argument
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Let me preface this by saying that it is not likely we never go out or anything. We go to dinner once at least once every few weeks and probably a bar/club type scene about as frequently. We also go to the movies alot and other date-night type things.

Typical situation is I ask my girlfriend, "do you want to do anything tomorrow night?" And then I get a response along the lines of "No, I we can just stay home and watch a movie or something." Then the actual day comes, and I ask her again in the morning and she again repeats the same thing. To be honest, I enjoy staying in and just relaxing so for me I am not going to press the issue.

Then it gets to be about midnight or sometime when it is clearly not even a possibility to go out and she starts yelling at me telling me when never do anything and I don't love her.

Now come on.

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This is a likely story. You are dating the kind of girl that has no ability to make decisions for themselves and expects you make all the plans in your relationship. You are expected to anticipate all of her needs and make all the decisions about where to go and what to do. She feels like if she wavers or doesn't make decisions, she won't be held responsible if, god forbid, she makes a BAD choice.

You would be much better off either dumping her RIGHT NOW, or you need to explain that she is in control of her own happiness. While you can do many things as a couple, you should not be held solely responsible for her entertainment.

However, if you have been the primary decision maker up to this point (and it sounds like you have been), maybe you just like being in charge. If that's the case, you are just as much at fault as she.

If you continue to enable her immature behavior, you will end up being in a relationship with a child.

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Category Relationship
Case was closed on December 12, 2007 21:45
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Jrnyfn   3735 days 17 hours 4 min. ago
I happen to agree, with Marcella. I also happen to think that you should be lucky you have a girlfriend and are luck you are loved.
Be grateful that your girlfriend is not a golddigger looking to out and blow away your money. Save all that money that you could have spent for a future wedding

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