Roughjewel: I supported this guy for yrs. Still give rides & put food in home plus whatever else if we need it. Yet he trys to always make me out to be the bad 1
We weren't at the best point of our relationship, and had broken up many times before, but I finally packed my stuff and moved out, and we were broken up for good. I grabbed what would fit in my car, and when I came to the first stoplight I was in a car accident, first one of my life. I was really upset and my parents made me stay with them that night. I called him when I got home balling because my mom is the biggest bitch there ever was to me, and begged him to call me back as soon as he could. He never did. The next day he told me that the reason we had broken up, a girl who had been talking and flirting with for a month now and I couldn't stand to take second place, but they had screwed around the night before that's why he didn't call me back. He said they didn't "fuck" but later that week when I was getting the rest of my stuff I found a condom wrapper behind MY bed I had bought MYSELF. He said he wasn't interested in her, and didn't want to be in a sexual relationship with her. We tried to get back together, and I told him I didn't feel comfortable with them hanging out. He said that's fine. But tonight we got into an argument because I didn't want to leave my apartment to go to his and he said he would call up someone I didn't want him to. I think It's fine for me to be pissed about that and not want to be in a relationship with a guy who does that. He says I'm immature.
#1: ---"He said they didn't "fuck" but later that week when I was getting the rest of my stuff I found a condom wrapper behind MY bed I had bought MYSELF. He said he wasn't interested in her, and didn't want to be in a sexual relationship with her."---
So he doesn't call you back because he was with another girl and ADMITTED it....yet he's not interested in her and did nothing??? He had to be interested in her to invite her over!! Ask him what was his reason for inviting her over then, if he "wasn't interested in her"??? And what was he doing with her ALL THAT TIME he didn't call you back? Did they want to play chess? Watch TV? Simply talk? I think NOT! "Sure, I just had a fight with my gf and she left me, so now I'm going to invite some girl over for no reason, just to have her over"....RIGHHHHT....It's called a bucket full of lies!
#2: YOU FOUND A CONDOM WRAPPER BEHIND YOUR BED!!! ENOUGH SAID!
#3: I think "Ferice" is right, I'm not sure what you're doing with a scum-bag like himself. He obviously doesn't care about you and will betray you the 1st chance he gets. And you should realize that YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER! Some one else is out there just waiting to treat you like the princess you are. So like they say, "Drop the zero and find yourself a hero"...lol.
Why would you describe your mom as being the biggest bitch ever? I don't know your mom, but I don't think any mother deserves such title. Now to the other business, it's either your boyfriend is cheating on you, or he is a jerk. He does not care about your feeling, and he made it clear to you. You simply have to open your eyes and see it.
I think you should also evaluate yourself. Based on what I read, I think you need to look in the mirror and see how pretty you are and how much potential you have. I don't believe you need him, but you have to believe in yourself and take the necessary to move forward. You simply need to look in the mirror every morning and say to yourself "I am beautiful, and I can do anything with this jerk of a boyfriend."
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#1: ---"He said they didn't "fuck" but later that week when I was getting the rest of my stuff I found a condom wrapper behind MY bed I had bought MYSELF. He said he wasn't interested in her, and didn't want to be in a sexual relationship with her."---
So he doesn't call you back because he was with another girl and ADMITTED it....yet he's not interested in her and did nothing??? He had to be interested in her to invite her over!! Ask him what was his reason for inviting her over then, if he "wasn't interested in her"??? And what was he doing with her ALL THAT TIME he didn't call you back? Did they want to play chess? Watch TV? Simply talk? I think NOT! "Sure, I just had a fight with my gf and she left me, so now I'm going to invite some girl over for no reason, just to have her over"....RIGHHHHT....It's called a bucket full of lies!
#2: YOU FOUND A CONDOM WRAPPER BEHIND YOUR BED!!! ENOUGH SAID!
#3: I think "Ferice" is right, I'm not sure what you're doing with a scum-bag like himself. He obviously doesn't care about you and will betray you the 1st chance he gets. And you should realize that YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER! Some one else is out there just waiting to treat you like the princess you are. So like they say, "Drop the zero and find yourself a hero"...lol.