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Me vs. Mother
Eviltwin
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Argue this Case Eviltwin: My mother has always been controlling. Now she's taking over my wedding.

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December 10, 2017 23:09
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Am I
Glitterystargaze
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Argue this Case Glitterystargaze: I feel my husband is no longer interested in me and want to know what is going on but get no cooperation.

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September 10, 2011 23:56
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AM I OVERREACTING?
Glitterystargaze`s Argument
Glitterystargaze

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My husband and I dated for a year before we became pregnant with our son. During that first year we both equally initiated intimacy and I never had to "ask" for any affection. As soon as I told him we were expecting, he stopped initiating things and began distancing himself from me. After the baby was born his behavior did not change and it has progressed to much worse 5 years later. I have caught him looking at inappropriate photos of another woman we know and he apologized and said he only did it a few times. It would be much easier to forgive him if he actually seemed interested in me but he denies anything being wrong and when I brought up going to therapy or seeing a doctor he said he won't because of lack of insurance. (this is true) But, he still claims he loves me and has not lost interest. Am I right by being upset or am I overreacting and what should I do? I just want the truth!


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Are you making an effort to connect with him in a way he feels comfortable? Do you show him respect as the head of the family and the household?

Guys don't like it when women nag, and I've seen marriages fall apart because the husband isn't mature enough to have a heart to heart conversation with his wife. This doesn't mean you're right though. Continuous prodding and questioning won't make things better. Treat him with a quiet respect, tell him how you feel and leave it at that. Don't yell, don't show your anger, but be the more mature person. It seems that he doesn't know how to transition from being a husband to being a family man.

That being said, maybe renew your vows? Surprise him in bed? Good luck

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67% of People thought Glitterystargaze was Wrong (3 total votes)
Category Relationship
Case was closed on November 28, 2016 19:20
Tags: lack of love
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