Friend C and G, by mistake, post private messages into the group chat. Friend J tells them to 'SHUT UP', as he got annoyed with the notification sound. Friend C and G deleted the messages and said sorry for the mistake.
Friend L gets involved and starts insulting Friend J. Blowing the whole situation out of proportion.
J reads L's messages and snaps and gets involved again. Friend A tries to diffuse the situation, but they all ignore her.
This was my response to the messages.
First of all, I made A an Assistant for a reason. For all intents and purposes, if I am not here, and A is, A is me. Meaning you need to listen to her if she tells you to stop and calm down.
Second. C and G should have looked at Discord before sending messages. Group servers look nothing like PM's. They should have looked and realized that this was the group server before sending messages. And J probably should have muted Discord or turned off notifications.
Third. L should not have gotten involved at all. This was between C, G and J. I get that G is L's best friend. But G doesn't need L protecting her all the time. G is a big girl. She can protect herself. What would happen, if L always protected G and G got into a situation where she needed to protect herself, and couldn't because L always protected her for her? Also, this situation had no need of anyone protecting anyone. L just blew the whole thing out of proportion.
Also, I see nothing wrong with J yelling 'SHUT UP'. Yes, he could have asked nicely. But that didn't happen. It wasn't like he said 'Shut up you motherfucking assholes." He just said shut up. If L didn't involve herself, and you all listened to A, I wouldn't have to say any of this at all to you all. A tried her hardest to get you all to stop. But none of you listened. You should have stopped teh second you saw her use capital letters, and curses. You know that it takes alot to get her pissed.
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